Tips for parents:

Among recommendations for preventing underage drinking:

*Form a network with other parents so that if you are away, they can check and make sure your home is not being used for an unauthorized drinking party.

*Be aware that even responsible children can have a small party spin out of control through text messages and cell phones. A teenager can invite a half-dozen friends over, only to have dozens more show up when word gets out that no adults are around.

*Avoid sending party invitations by e-mail. They're easy to forward and can result in uninvited guests.

*When hosting a party, be sure to have plenty of food and non-alcoholic beverages. Adults should keep an eye on things without becoming obtrusive.

*If your children are riding in a limo, look in the trunk before they go.

*Talk to children. Let them know that you aren't trying to ruin their lives, you're trying to protect them.

-- Dan Gibbard